Like I said earlier, most girls will give you hints that they like you over text (and in real life), instead of confessing their feelings.
How to respond when a girl says she likes you over text
You can ignore her signs if you don’t like her – She will first think you’re whatsyourprice dating stupid and can’t read signs but will eventually understand the message.
You can take her out (asap) – Why ASAP? Because texting isn’t the perfect place to build a romance with a girl. Her emotions will always stay flaky until you follow them with a good date and cement them with a good bedroom time.
- Wait till her emotions are up
- Suggest you should go out together (Don’t be specific, and don’t tell her where, when or what to avoid any unwanted “NO”s
- Ask for her schedule (Know her availability first before deciding on the day)
- Pick a day that is not further than 3 days ahead (makes her less likely to cancel on you)
- Don’t stop texting her till the date-time (don’t text her heavily, just a few texts every now and then to stay on her radar)
She will give you silence, very short replies, boring replies and if she ever wanted something from you she will either cut to the chase or be nice to you for a while and then spend hours texting the guy who teases her brains out.
I will give you a test to use whenever you’re confused about any girl and or ask yourself, “Is she interested but shy or not interested at all?”
How to Test a Girl Through Text (How to Gauge Her Interest Over Text)
The answer is simple, yet requires A LOT of patience. This is key in getting a girl to like you.
When I go through some of my old texts I realize that lack of patience ruined many of them. The two biggest mistakes are:
- Growing impatient if she stops texting for a couple of days
- Asking her out before spiking enough emotions
That’s where you need patience the most, especially if you’ve been texting back and forth and she seems kinda responsive. But you gotta see if she really likes you or was just being friendly.
If she texts first, ask you what’s up, or initiates a conversation of any kind then that’s a big sign she likes you over text. Your short absence has erupted her emotions and even made her rethink her value to you.
It’s very important that you hold your ground for the few days you decide not to text her. Girls aren’t stupid, at least not as stupid as many men think, and know that some guys like to play absent to mess with their emotions.
So she might test you by changing her photo multiple times or appearing online more often just to get you to text her.
This move makes some guys panic and text back right away just to make sure the girl didn’t block them.
Still, cool. At least you showed her that you’re a busy man who doesn’t have time to text her 24/7….
You can always text her later and see how she’s doing. ple of what she’s been missing the past two days and play with her.
One thing to remember is to NEVER ask if she missed you or say anything that tells her your absence was intentional.
Men don’t say things like that to women they don’t know – or even women they know – and that’s why they don’t get laid often.
