You aren’t are selfish, as well as if you were, that would be okay! We simply cannot getting selfless right through the day, if not no body would actually feel pleased. What is actually being questioned people is all involved in a basketball from endemic misogyny, generational rubbing, friends baggage, and most likely a lot of whatever else too. Whether it helps smile and you can nod from the others of your own head to, get it done, however, no-one can give you commit to things now and it is really well ok to say so.