There are certain reasons why the culture has been shaped this way, but that’s outside the scope of this article, but you should keep in mind that female ejaculation is looked down on by Spiritual Singles come messaggio di qualcuno many people.
We need to get rid of those fears and think about it logically; squirting is fun, healthy and healing, so why not make it part of everyday life and a great sex life?
On all accounts, female gushing is healthy and healing. It is a way to relax, ‘blow off steam’ and add another dimension of pleasure to the standard female orgasm.
It also promotes the release of regenerating and emotionally bonding hormones into the bloodstream. You will need a partner who sees things this way as well.
If the physical side of things is taken care of, and your still not cumming then consider the possibility that you have deeper feelings of shame surrounding sex and make an effort to overcome these. We don’t need those feelings anyway.
A mature, sophisticated guy will find a girls who can gush as a massive turn on, sexy and much more fun in the bedroom. That’s why we teach men how to make her squirt.
Physically Prepare Your Body For Squirting
Physical preparation is the second most important aspect of wet orgasms, emotional preparation being the first. Just like any other muscle, the walls of the vagina can be trained and strengthened and this is a crucial part of the ejaculation process.
Training these muscles results in not only the ability to ejaculate more easily, but more powerfully. You’ll also limit your ability to have multiple and stacked squirting orgasms if you don’t exercise your PC muscles.
Good lubrication is crucial for squirting, in fact, without it, a pleasurable touch can quickly turn into an irritable friction burn.
My favourite brand of lubricant is Nooky Lube. It’s a natural, water based lube, that feels amazing to the touch – Out of all the big name brand lubes I’ve tried this is by far my favourite and if you use it you’ll drastically increase your chances of squirting.
‘Give Birth’ To Your Orgasm
‘Giving birth to the orgasm’ is an expression that essentially means ‘as you feel the orgasm coming don’t try to hold it in, instead push it out.’ If you’re holding it in then that’s really going to limit the intensity and quantity of female ejaculate that you can produce.
Don’t Hold Back – Let Go…
This is especially true with squirting orgasms where holding back is a sign that you aren’t truly comfortable, either with your partner, or with yourself.
Plenty of women would have ejaculating orgasms naturally during the course of foreplay and intercourse, however we have been taught by society to remain ‘prim and proper’ which makes us hold back.
Sometimes the trick is as simple as letting go and not being afraid, so you will need a trustworthy, non-judgmental, and caring partner.
We also hold back because women who are unfamiliar with how to ejaculate to mistake the feeling of wanting to pee with the feeling or a gushing orgasm.
Be Hydrated So You Can Squirt Multiple Times
A large proportion of the general population are also chronically dehydrated and would make significant health benefits, such as weight loss and overcoming fatigue if they were fully hydrated.
Stop Wearing High Heels Wherever Possible
This is another strange point but is something interesting to consider. Wearing high heels can actually diminish the intensity of your orgasms by causing an unnatural rotation of the pelvic bone.
